Timing (and Tone) Is Everything

“Whoever blesses his neighbor with a loud voice,
rising early in the morning,
will be counted as cursing.”

– Proverbs 27:14

This is definitely true and also kind of humorous to think about. Many of us have known (or been) the person who was inveterately, loudly cheerful far earlier in the day than is generally appreciated. However, there is a deeper point about timing and tone in communication that is well worth considering.

Sometimes in our haste to give a good word, encouragement, or bit of advice we do it in a way that is poorly timed, poorly phrased, or poorly received. Our blessing gets counted as a curse. It’s always worth taking a moment, before sharing a good word, to prayerfully consider our timing and tone. Is it a good time for the person you wish to speak to to hear this message? Are they able to focus? Are they so busy or stressed about other things that even a blessing may come across as “yet another thing”? Be thoughtful and sensitive to someone’s situation before speaking.

Then consider whether your tone of blessing and encouragement will be clear when you communicate? This is particularly tricky when communicating electronically via text or email. When people can’t see your face or hear your voice there are no non-verbal cues to help them understand your heart in speaking. Effective communication largely depends on those non-verbal cues. In their absence, electronic blessings can easily be mis-interpreted, even if you’re careful in how you write them. A never forget the horrors of auto-correct! Always read twice before sending once.

Bless people with your words, but be thoughtful about how you deliver your blessing so it’s received as a blessing! #FollowJesus

Speak Golden Apples

“A word fitly spoken
is like apples of gold in a setting of silver.”

– Proverbs 25:11

You probably understand this proverb without having to think hard about it. Odds are that you have at least one story of words that were truly like this to you. Precious. Beautiful. Life giving. Treasured the moment you heard (or read) them. Because our lives are frequently flooded with an endless flow of cheap and worthless words (printed, posted, spoken, etc.), the contrast is striking when we hear well-spoken words that are like golden apples arranged in a sterling silver dish.

If you’ve ever been blessed by words like this, have you thought about how to elevate your own words? Do you make an effort to speak or write words like these? Have you meditated on ways to speak less like everyone and everything else competing for attention in a world drowning in words and more like, well, Jesus?

If you haven’t, give it some thought today! Steep yourself in Scripture and try to speak treasure into the lives of others. #FollowJesus

Loved and Favored

“And this house will become a heap of ruins. Everyone passing by it will be astonished and will hiss, and they will say, ‘Why has the Lord done thus to this land and to this house?’ Then they will say, ‘Because they abandoned the Lord their God who brought their fathers out of the land of Egypt and laid hold on other gods and worshiped them and served them. Therefore the Lord has brought all this disaster on them.’” – 1 Kings 9:8-9

It’s an incredible thing to be chosen and blessed by God. To be loved and favored with God’s blessing and presence is simply beyond description. That was true for Israel and it’s true for followers of Jesus who’ve been grafted into God’s family by grace. However, once that happens, that doesn’t mean you no longer need to care about obeying or respecting God. Quite the opposite!

God’s grace is an invitation into a deep, abiding relationship of obedience to His will and ways. If you’re blessed to be God’s child, then you need to understand that God isn’t blind or clueless. He knows your thoughts, words, and actions. All of them! He is calling you to live a holy life patterned after the life of His Son. There will be consequences for rebellion against His will.

The Bible is clear that God disciplines those He loves. His goal in that discipline (which isn’t punishment) is to bring His children back into alignment with His will. Your salvation is never a free pass to do whatever you feel like and then later say (without meaning it), ‘Sorry’. Your salvation is an invitation to deep, lasting love grounded in awe, respect, and obedience to the Lord Almighty Who loves you and adopted you as His child. #FollowJesus

The God Who Counts the Stars

“He heals the brokenhearted
and binds up their wounds.
He determines the number of the stars;
he gives to all of them their names.”

– Psalm 147:3-4

Praise the Lord!!! God is so transcendently awesome in magnitude, power, and knowledge that He alone decides how many stars there are in the universe. And He names them individually. Praise His greatness and His power! Praise the infinite breadth of His knowledge and understanding! Every star that you can see and the countless number that you can’t see has been established, named, and known by God. And yet…

God is so close to, and caring for, us that He knows your heart and the heart of everyone made in His image. He knows our wounds, sorrows, and sufferings. And He loves and cares for us individually. He heals our wounded hearts with the balm of His love and gospel. He doesn’t just make our wounds go away. He binds them up individually in love and care, tending to them until they heal properly.

When we praise and worship our great God, we must try to remember both of these stunning realities about our God. He is almighty and supreme over all of creation. And He loves us with personal knowledge, love, and care. It’s simply too much for our minds to truly process. Praise the Lord!!! #FollowJesus

A Simple & Beautiful Path to True Love

“Jesus answered him, ‘If anyone loves me, he will keep my word, and my Father will love him, and we will come to him and make our home with him.’” – John 14:23

What a delightfully simple summary of the most wonderful relationship and reality in the universe!

1) Love Jesus. Simple enough to grasp. Fortunately, it’s easy to love Jesus because of His great love for us demonstrated by His sacrificial death and resurrection. However, true love for Jesus certainly also requires believing Jesus to be truthful that He is the eternal Son of God and God Himself come in the flesh. If you believe less about Jesus, it would be difficult to argue that you love Him since you consider Him a liar, a lunatic, a weakling unable to preserve His own words down through history.

2) Obey Jesus. Jesus is emphatic that if you love Him, you will do your Spirit-filled best to obey His commands. Including the commands that are difficult, uncomfortable, or potentially dangerous.

3) Be Loved by the Father. This follows from those first two things. Very simple, very beautiful!

4) The Triune God will live in you. Every true believer in Jesus is sealed by the Holy Spirit and the Triune God – Father, Son, and Spirit – lives in them. Incredible, but also incredibly true!

Love and obey Lord Jesus. Delight in His love and presence in your life. Be blessed today and every day! #FollowJesus